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Does a Gay Marriage Cost more than a straight marriage?

The costs of a wedding will depend on what state you live in. For gay couples this is even more important as only a few states allow gay marriage. These states are California, Connecticut, Delaware, Iowa, Maine, Maryland,

Crowd in support of Gay Marriage
Crowd in support of Gay Marriage (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Massachusetts, Minnesota, New Hampshire, New York, Rhode Island, Vermont, and Washington D.C.

Recent political events have reduced some of these costs by revoking Proposition 8 and returning gay marriage to California. Additionally, by removing the Defense of Marriage Act federal benefits are now available to all married couples gay or straight.
The biggest difference in the cost of the essential part of the marriage (the license) and any travel costs for those who do not live in states that allow gay marriage. The most expensive is Maryland which costs $85. Most marriage licenses seem to cost about $50 such as California’s $68, and Delaware’s $50. However in Connecticut and Iowa the license is only $30.
If you do not live in a state that allows gay marriage, there may be options including domestic partnerships. These states are Oregon, Nevada, New Jersey, Illinois, and Hawaii. Be careful considering these states however, as many domestic partnership benefits do not apply when traveling out of state. These are also not eligible for over 1000 federal benefits of marriage. In fact, domestic partnerships can act differently from zip code to zip code. Carefully read any agreement, as some do not provide any legal rights or protections but are simply a written commitment of a couple.
Also some states may recognize same sex marriages performed in other states though they do not allow the marriage to take place there. If you live in one of these states it may be worth the travel costs to go to a nearby state that allows gay marriage.
According to market watch, average spending on a ceremony is $25,000 however it varies depending on personal preferences and resources. Costs can depend on what season you get married in, real simple reports venue costs being reduced up to 20% if a wedding is in the winter, and not on a Saturday (the most common day for a wedding). Brides and grooms can consider renting their outfit to reduce costs. You can also consider cheaper alternatives such as having a family member doing the catering, or decorating your cake yourself. Party favors can be made by family members who like crafts.
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Money Problems – Day 5: Boosting Your Income

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Today, I am continuing the  series, Money Problems: 30 Days to Perfect Finances.   The series will consist of 30 things you can do in one setting to perfect your finances.  It’s not a system to magically make your debt disappear.  Instead, it is a path to understanding where you are, where you want to be, and–most importantly–how to bridge the gap.

I’m not running the series in 30 consecutive days.  That’s not my schedule.  Also, I think that talking about the same thing for 30 days straight will bore both of us.   Instead, it will run roughly once a week.  To make sure you don’t miss a post, please take a moment to subscribe, either by email or rss.

Today we’re going to look at ways to boost your income.

People spend a lot of time talking about ways to reduce your expenses, but there is a better way to make ends meet.  If you make more money, you will—naturally—have more money to work with, which will make it easier to balance your expenses.  I’ve found it to be far less painful to make more money than to cut expenses I enjoy.

I can hear what you’re thinking.  It’s easy to tell people to make more money, but what about telling them how?  Guess what?  I’m going to tell you how to make money because I rock.

By far, the simplest way to make more money is to convince whoever is paying you to pay you more for what you are already doing.   In other words, get a raise.  I know that’s easy to say.  Money’s tight for a lot of companies and layoffs are common.   None of that matters. Your company knows that hiring someone new will involve a lot of downtime during training.   If you’ve been visibly doing your job, and the company isn’t on the brink of failure, it should be possible to get a bit of the budget tossed your way.

  • The first thing you need to do is get visible.  If you habitually come in 15 minutes late, make it 15 minutes early.  If you are working an alternative schedule, consider switching to the standard schedule, so everyone who matters can see you are at work.    Start sending status updates to your boss, including copying him on emails to other people you work with, if those emails signify important milestones in a project.
  • Next, log your work. Keep track o what you do, what you’ve accomplished, and—most important—how much money you have made or saved for the company.
  • Third, do your research. Hit the salary survey sites to find out what other people in your field are making.  Don’t worry if you are on the high side.  There is always someone making more than you.  If you are the exception to that rule, try using a similar variation of your job description and title.   What’s the concrete difference between a software engineer I and and a software engineer II?  About $15000.
  • Finally, schedule a meeting with your boss and ask.  Lay out the things you’ve done, the amount you make for the company and what other companies are paying.  Chances are, your boss will have a hard time refusing your request.

Another simple idea is to get a second job. Personally, I hate this idea, but it works wonders for some people.  Gas stations and pizza stores offer flexible schedules and they are always hiring.   If they aren’t willing to work with your schedule, or it doesn’t work out, you can always quit.  This isn’t your main income, after all.

My favorite option is to create a new income stream.   What can you do?

Take a piece of paper and a close friend and brainstorm how you can make some money. Write down every type of activity you have ever done or ever wanted to do.   Then write down everything you can think of that other people who do those activities need or want.  Remember, during a brainstorming session, there are no stupid ideas. Take those two lists and see if there is any product or service you can provide.

You can start a blog—although don’t expect to generate much money early—or try writing for some revenue-sharing article web sites, like hubpages or squidoo.   Other options include affiliate marketing, garage sale arbitrage(buying “junk” at garage sales, fixing it up and selling it), or even doing yard work for other people.

One interesting business I’ve seen lately is a traveling poop-scooper.    These people travel around and scoop poop out of ddog-owners’ yards.  Business booms in the spring when the snow melts, but it can be an ongoing income, since dogs don’t stop pooping.

Raising your income can make it easier to pay your bills, pay off your debt, or even taking nice vacations.  How have you made some extra cash?

 

 

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Let’s Talk Pets and Other Unexpected Expenses

The following is a guest post by Crystal at Budgeting in the Fun Stuff. Her blog covers living expenses, saving for your future, and the fun stuff in between.  (Ed.  Thanks, Crystal!)

I’ve been complaining on and off about the cost of my poor Pug’s allergies, so I thought I’d do a little post to let all of us vent a little about unexpected expenses. 🙂

Here’s how much Mr. Pug has cost in vet bills and medicine alone since he developed major allergies to meat proteins and dairy in February 2010:

  • February 4, 2010 – Mr. Pug licked off some hair, so we visited the crappy vet I will never go to again – $185.29
  • May 11, 2010 – Mr. Pug stopped eating and his eyes looked cloudy, first visit to new vet for dry eye – $177.78
  • May 12, 2010 – Dermatology Exam, Skin Scraping, Ear Check, and 6 medicines – $254.00
  • May 18, 2010 – Check-Up on dry eye – $53.34
  • June 2, 2010 – Check-Up on Ear Infections, Skin Infection, and medicine refills – $134.00
  • July 8, 2010 – Check-Up on Skin Infection, 2 new medicines, and 2 refills – $146.80
  • July 8, 2010 – Antibiotics – $60.60

AND we’re scheduled for another $105 check-up this coming week for his hopefully healed ear infection. So, between February 4 and this coming week, we will have paid at least $1116.81 for vet visits and medicines alone. That doesn’t even take into account the $45 bags of vegan dog food that only lasts about 6 weeks or the $500 we spent last year on 5 tooth extractions. 🙁

Thankfully we didn’t get pets until we had excess cash flow, but DANG! He’s an expensive little boy! I love him and we’d pay it again, but I wouldn’t suggest pure breeds for anybody not willing to lay out major dough for something as “simple” as allergies. We would totally let our dogs go if they needed chemotherapy or something (yes, I have my lines), but allergies…well, how do you turn down treatment that can make a pet 99% better? I’m a sucker for his big Pug eyes…I mean, look at him:

Have you had any unexpected expenses pop up? If so, what have they been and how are you dealing with it?

Olivia Wilde is Having a Baby: What are the first-month expenses?

English: Olivia Wilde at a San Diego Comic-Con...
English: Olivia Wilde at a San Diego Comic-Con panel for Tron Legacy in July 2010. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Olivia Wilde recently announced her pregnancy with fiance Jason Sudeikis as she’s due with her first child in the coming year. Although the couple have declined to reveal their due date, they likely are expecting to set aside a budget for their baby, even with their high incomes. With forty percent of moms saying that having a baby is more expensive than they initially assumed, it’s important to look at the overall costs in the first month for plenty of preparation and financial planning.

Food

The first-month’s expenses can slightly range, depending on if the mother is using formula to feed the baby or is breastfeeding.

Breastfeeding is free and will not cost a dime, besides the breastfeeding supplies that cost an average of $15 in the first month due to nursing pads and milk storage bags for freezing.

Name-brand formula can be expensive, an average cost of $25 a week as the baby will be feeding on it several times a day, totaling about $100 in the first month. Generic brands of formula cost half the amount, an average of $12 a week.

Medical

Health insurance is one of the most expensive costs for newborn babies with 39 percent of mothers paying $1,000 with their childbirth. Some even pay at least $5,000. Health insurance will also likely increase to $200 a month for the child with co-pays that range from $30 to $100 per visit. Some health insurance will refuse to cover certain costs, which include vaccines and immunizations.

Daycare

Paid maternity leave is considered a luxury in the U.S. and is often unavailable for mothers who are self-employeed or do freelance work, making daycare a necessity. Daycare for newborns averages to $100 a month, but can be at least $1,000 for celebrities that use an in-home nanny.

General Care

Wipes will cost an average of $13 in the first month with a $5 increase in the water bill for the baby’s laundry and baths.

Diapers are one of the scariest expenses that are priced at $80 for basic Pamper diapers for newborns. Using cloth diapers are a one-time expense, so if provided by a friend or relative at a baby shower, they are free to use consistently and do not require much water or detergent to wash every other day.

Bath soap, detergent, and baby-safe shampoo will cost $30 a month to maintain the hygiene of your baby.

Although Olivia Wilde’s baby will be unique in its feeding habits and the materials for diapers used, the average cost in the first month will likely total $200 and can go as high as $4,000 for a celebrity. Many of the costs simply depend on the baby and are determined by the type of diapers used, the amount of doctor visits, daycare that may be needed, and whether the baby prefers breastfeeding or feeding on formula.

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Make Extra Money Part 2: Niche Selection

If you want to make money, help someone get healthy, wealthy or laid.

This section was quick.

Seriously, those three topics have been making people rich since the invention of rich.   Knowing that isn’t enough. If you want to make some money in the health niche, are you going to help people lose weight, add muscle, relieve stress, or reduce the symptoms of some unpleasant medical condition?   Those are called “sub-niches”.  (Side question: Viagra is a sub-niche of which topic?)

Still not enough.

If you’re going to offer a product to help lose weight, does it revolve around diet, exercise, or both?   For medical conditions, is it a way to soothe eczema, instructions for a diabetic diet, a cure for boils, or help with acne?  Those are micro-niches.

That’s where you want to be.  The “make money” niche is far too broad for anyone to effectively compete.  The “make money online” sub-niche is still crazy.  When you get to the “make money buying and selling websites” micro-niche, you’re in a territory that leaves room for competition, without costing thousands of dollars to get involved.

Remember that:  The more narrowly you define your niche market, the easier it is to compete. You can take that too far.  The “lose weight by eating nothing but onions, alfalfa, and imitation caramel sauce” micro-niche is probably too narrowly defined to have a market worth pursuing.  You need a micro-niche with buyers, preferably a lot of them.

Now the hard part.

How do you find a niche with a lot of potential customers?  Big companies pay millions of dollars every year to do that kind of market research.

Naturally, I recommend you spend millions of dollars on market research.

No?

Here’s the part where I make this entire series worth every penny you’ve paid.  Times 10.

Steal the research.

My favorite source of niche market research to steal is http://www.dummies.com/.    Click the link and notice all of the wonderful niches at the top of the page.  Jon Wiley & Sons, Inc. spends millions of dollars to know what topics will be good sellers.  They’ve been doing this a long time. Trust their work.

Niche Research
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You don’t have to concentrate on the topics I’ve helpfully highlighted, but they will make it easier for you.  Other niches can be profitable, too.

Golf is a great example.  Golfers spend money to play the game.  You don’t become a golfer without having some discretionary money to spend on it.   I’d recommend against consumer electronics.  There is a lot of competition for anything popular, and most of that is available for free.   If you choose to promote some high-end gear using your Amazon affiliate link, you’re still only looking at a 3% commission.

I like to stick to topics that people “need” an answer for, and can find that answer in ebook form, since I will be promoting a specific product.

With that in mind, pick a topic, then click one of the links to the actual titles for sale.   The “best selling titles” links are a gold mine. You can jump straight to the dummies store, if you’d like.

Of the topics above, here’s how I would narrow it down:

1.  Business and Careers. The bestsellers here are Quickbooks and home buying.  I’m not interested in either topic, so I’ll go into “More titles”.   Here, the “urgent” niches look like job hunting and dealing with horrible coworkers.  I’m also going to throw “writing copy” into the list because it’s something I have a hard time with.

Bestsellers
Bestsellers

2.  Health and Fitness. My first thought was to do a site on diabetic cooking, but the cooking niche is too competitive.  Childhood obesity, detox diets and back pain remedies strike me as worth pursuing.  I’m leaning towards back pain, because I have a bad back.  When you’ve thrown your back out, you’ve got nothing to do but lie on the couch and look for ways to make the pain stop.  That’s urgency.

3.  Personal Finance. The topics that look like good bets are foreclosures and bankruptcies.    These are topics that can cost thousands of dollars if you get them wrong.  I hate to promote a bankruptcy, but some people are out of choices.    Foreclosure defense seems like a good choice.   Losing your home comes with a sense of urgency, and helping people stay in their home makes me feel good.

4.  Relationships and Family. Of these topics, divorce is probably a good seller.  Dating advice definitely is.   I’m not going to detail either one of those niches here.  Divorce is depressing and sex, while fun, isn’t a topic I’m going to get into here.   I try to be family friendly, most of the time.    Weddings are great topic.  Brides are planning to spend money and there’s no shortage of resources to promote.

So, the niches I’ve chosen are:

  • Back pain
  • Bankruptcy
  • Conflict resolution at work
  • Detox diets
  • Fat kids
  • Foreclosure avoidance
  • Job hunting
  • Weddings
  • Writing copy

I won’t be building 9 niche sites in this series.    From here, I’m going to explore effective keywords/search terms and good products to support.  There’s no guarantee I’ll find a good product with an affiliate program for a niche I’ve chosen that has keywords that are both highly searched and low competition, so I’m giving myself alternatives.

For those of you following along at home, take some time to find 5-10 niches you’d be willing to promote.

The important things to consider are:

1. Does it make me feel dirty to promote it?

2. Will there be customers willing to spend money on it?

3.  Will those customers have an urgent need to solve a problem?

I’ve built sites that ignore #3, and they don’t perform nearly as well as those that consider it.  When I do niche sites, I promote a specific product.  It’s pure affiliate marketing, so customers willing to spend money are necessarily my target audience.