Am I the only one who just noticed that it’s Wednesday? The holiday week with the free day is completely screwing me up.
Just to make this a relevant post:
Spend less!
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Invest!
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Delayed Gratification, Take II
How much would you pay for a kiss from the world’s sexiest celebrity?
That was the focus of a recent study that I can’t find today. There is no celebrity waiting in the wings to deliver the drool, and the study doesn’t name which celebrity it is. That’s an exercise for the reader.
This was a study into how we value nice things.
The fascinating part of the study is that people would be willing to pay more to get the kiss in 3 days than they would to get the tongue slipped immediately.
Anticipation adds value.
Instant gratification actually causes us to devalue the object of our desire.
This goes well beyond “Will you respect me in the morning?”
The last time I talked about delayed gratification, it was in the context of my kids. That still holds true. Kids don’t value the things that are handed to them.
The surprising–and disturbing–bit is that adults don’t, either. If I run out to the store to buy an iPad the first day I see one, I won’t care about it nearly as much as if I spend a week or two agonizing over the decision.
The delay alone adds to the perceived value. The agony turns the perceived value into gold.
If I spend a month searching for the perfect car, the thrill of the successful hunt adds less value than the time it took to do the hunting.
Here’s my frugal tip for today: Delay your purchases. While it may not actually save you any money, you will feel like you got a much better deal if you wait a few days for something you really want.
Does Amanda Bynes Need a Conservatorship?
The publicly documented downward spiral of Amanda Bynes may be reaching its breaking point. She has been on psychiatric lockdown for the past three days, and her parents are petitioning for conservatorship in California
on the grounds that they believe she is suffering from acute schizophrenia. They claim that the troubled starlet is unable to make safe decisions regarding her own well-being, not to mention the safety of others. The issue is complex, but the former childhood star has demonstrated that she meets the criteria to have external guardians instated to protect her from unpredictably irrational behaviors.
This development is the latest in a long saga of antics for Bynes, and the recent news report inserts a tragic twist into her somewhat comedic downfall. She had a pristine public persona only a year ago; however, at this time, she was caught publicly smoking marijuana. No one expected this incident to escalate, and it was treated like an innocent youthful infraction; however, the act recently turned criminal when she was reported for smoking in the lobby of her apartment complex.The comedian ran from the arriving police officers, and hurled a large cannabis apparatus out of a skyscraper window. The water-pipe was never found, but it presumably shattered upon impact. Bynes was incarcerated by the New York Police Department. During this time, the actress accused law enforcement of sexual assaulting her in a very lewd manner. Her absurd claims were never substantiated. The case against her is pending, and she has been evicted from her residence.
This was not the first criminal case against Bynes; she is also dealing with hit-and-run allegations in California. It was also not her last interaction with the police. Most recently, the actress doused an elderly woman’s driveway in gasoline and set it ablaze. She accidentally covered a puppy in the flammable liquid, so she ran down the block looking for something to save the animal from catching fire. After ransacking a convenience store, officers accosted her. The exchange resulted in the psychiatric hold that has been placed on Bynes.
Unfortunately, grounds for conservatorship can be exceedingly challenging to meet. Clear proof of mental illness needs to provided, and the standards are rigidly strict; however, if anyone has showcased the fanatical craziness that constitutes a lack of personal responsibility, it is Amanda Bynes.
Her schizophrenia is no longer dormant. The actress has become obsessed with plastic surgery, and she has deformed her face with cheek piercings. She uses online social networks to decry public figures for their ugliness. Victims of this attack include even Barack and Michelle Obama. Furthermore, she makes offensive sexual remarks towards rappers, and she wants to be a hip-hop artist herself. She has spent fortunes on a wig collection, and she employs a different style at every court appearance. The actress even used one as a disguise for an incognito trip to a trampoline emporium.
Anyone that has seen her Nickelodeon program would not be shocked to learn that she was schizophrenic. The role had her switching between dozens of identities for different skits, and she even played a character that was, in effect, obsessively stalking the star herself. “The Amanda Show” was neurotically fast-paced. Ultimately, the entire program can now be viewed as an eerie foreshadowing to the budding of a latent psychological disorder. If the legal standards of insanity are not met, then she will be free to wreak havoc on herself and others.
Net Worth, April 2016
Last year wasn’t a good year for my net worth. It came with a $7000 drop.
Q1 2016, however, was a great quarter.
In December, we had $13,271 in credit card debt. At the time I took this screenshot, it was down to $3836.43. As of this moment, it’s down to $2640.91. If things go as expected this week, I should wake up on Friday to a paid-off credit card. I had to raid some of our savings accounts to make it happen, but it’s happening. Some of it was a tax refund, some of it was the fact that my mortgage payment went away in December.
That’s seven years of hard work, almost to the day. Seven years ago, I was researching bankruptcy, and stumbled across Dave Ramsey. Seven years ago, we were drowning in debt.
Next week, we’re free. No more debt, hanging over our heads. We’re free to take vacations. We’re free to finally save for college, when my son is 16, and stand a chance of being able to pay for it for him. We’re free to do…whatever we want to do. Our monthly nut after the debt is paid–only in fall/winter/spring when my wife is working–is roughly 1/3 of our take-home pay.
That’s how hard we’ve cut to make sure we can pay our bills and make debt die. We do have some things that would be considered extravagant. We’re not savages. But my car is 10 years old. My wife’s is 7. My motorcycles are 35 and 30; one of them was purchased before we cared about our debt.
Back to the net worth….
The biggest change came from our property values, which sucks. That was $36,000 of the difference, which comes with the painful tax bump to go with it. A large chunk of the savings increase was the money we set aside every month to cover the property tax bill, and that will go away next month.
Still, $641,000 dollars is a long way from nothing. I’m pretty happy.
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In an effort to promote the crap out of the Yakezie Beta Chapter, I’ve created a search specific to us. This will make it easy to find Beta Challengers to promote.
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10 Things to do on a Cheap Vacation.
This summer, my family took a six-day cheap vacation. Technically, it was a “stay-cation”, but I hate that word. Our goal was a fun time, on a budget, for 3 kids–one, two, and nine–without driving the adults nuts. Obviously, if you’re not herding small children, some of these choices may not be for you.
- Zoo. In St. Paul, there is a free zoo that is more fun than the paid zoo in the area. There’s a small amusement park, a playground, lots of picnic benches, and even animals. We packed a cooler full of food and drinks and hauled the kids to Como Zoo for a day. If there isn’t a free zoo near you, find a local petting zoo. They are good for a few hours.
- Go Antiquing. Make sure you stay on a budget. It can be more fun to feel the history in antique stores than to feel the fleeting thrill of an off-budget purchase. This isn’t much fun for small children.
- Children’s Museums. We have access to a “Museum Adventure Pass”. We used one to go to The Works Museum, which is a hands-on science exhibit not far from our home. It wasn’t busy and the kids had a blast. Most metropolitan areas have a wide variety of childre-friendly museums.
- Municipal Pool. We spent an afternoon at the city pool. Aside from gas, this was one of the most expensive events for our vacation. Residents get a discount, but it was still $30. I discovered that my two-year-old loves big waterslides. She comes out of them with a death-grip on the inner tube and a huge smile on her face. It was a double tube and she sat in my lap.
- Game Day. Spend a day with the TV off and games on the table. Make some snacks and prepare for some of the best quality time you can have as a family.
- Picnic. Pack a lunch and go somewhere quiet. Go to the park. Go to the country. Grab a bench on a sidewalk somewhere. Just have a leisurely lunch and take the opportunity to connect with your family.
- Hike. Find a trail somewhere and just walk. I’ve found that it easy to have deep or sometimes even awkward conversations while walking. You may find out things you never would have guessed.
- Visit Family. Hotel on the go? My parents live more than 2 hours away, so they are always thrilled to have us visit with the grandchildren. Be nice, bring some food to help out.
- Bike. The final day of our vacation, my wife and I left the kids in daycare and kept the day to ourselves. We had breakfast in a nice little cafe. We went antiquing. Then we went out to the park where we were married, had a picnic lunch and went for a bike ride together. It was our anniversary.
- Apple Orchard. Around here, they are everywhere. Pick-you-own apples, a petting zoo, pony rides. If you go in the fall, there is usually a corn maze. You can by real apple cider and any number of baked goods.
- University Exhibits. Check your local colleges, especially the public universities. Most of them have a PR program to maintain public interest and funding. Even the private schools will usually have fund-raisers for some programs. We recently attended the raptor show at the University of Minnesota for free with our Adventure Pass.
Vacations don’t have to be expensive to be fun. Counting gas, food, and the occasional souvenir, we took a 6 day cheap vacation packed with activities for well under $400, possibly even under $300.
How do you save money on a vacation?
Update: This post has been included in the Money Hacks Carnivals XCV.
